Comments on: Fair

By: memmories

memmories — Wed, 25 Apr 2007 14:06:23 +0000

“I can’t. I can’t put my happiness above others’ and I don’t regret that.”
I’m happy to see that there are other people like that.. for a long time I really believed people like that are fairy tales..

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By: Stefan

Stefan — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 21:32:43 +0000

Well, what can i say, i’m blonde.
Honestly, i don’t get people who lie. I mean, the truth will come out eventually, and it will probably hurt. Why make people suffer by not telling the truth in the first place?
And yes, nowadays honorable people are, sadly, often considered suckers. “It’s a tought world out there”, many liars say. Hell, yeah, but i’d rather fight it still having a clear conscience.
PS: Sorry for not getting it right the first time. My brain was probably out to lunch when i read your post (it seems to eat quite a lot, apparently, ’cause it was missing for a looooooooong time. I’m not sure it’s back, actually).

By: andressa

andressa — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:22:18 +0000

stefan,
it’s not about a break-up. it’s about being lied to for a long time.

By: andressa

andressa — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:19:39 +0000

it’s going to be ok. and quitting is sometimes the most courageous thing to do.

By: Stefan

Stefan — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 19:18:10 +0000

I have a slight ideea about what you are feeling, because i am in this position myself. And it sucks. But, in time, the pain will go away. I usually try to keep myself busy, beacause if i stop, memories pop out. And it’s not a pretty sight.
PS: I thought spring was supposed to be the season of love not break-ups. Guess i thought wrong…

By: Silvia

Silvia — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 12:46:32 +0000

It’s funny that you should mention this at this moment. I’ve held the “I care” speech just recently, and with the same results as you. But still I wonder. No, it’s not a bad thing to put first someone else’s happiness, but what if that third person is not the right one for that particular person and you’re the one to know that. What then? But in this case the word “objectivity” is a very relative one. Perhaps there is no real solution, life has it’s ways that we don’t necessarily understand at the right time. But I think sometimes one doesn’t have to feel lied to because people have always had the tendency to feed their own illusions. At least up to some point. Things have their own way of fixing… P.s. Listen to Damien Rice – The Blower’s Daughter. Not a happy song but…

By: Vlad

Vlad — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 12:20:19 +0000

Don’t you people feel that it’s wrong we came at the point of thinking that “honor” is “old fashioned” ? Trust me, it’s not. It will never be out of “fashion”, it will simply not be in a lot of people’s hearts.

By: Rebeca

Rebeca — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 09:46:01 +0000

it is important for us to know that we build our own reality…we decide which direction to choose…word are important, because they materialize…hug:)

By: bogdan

bogdan — Tue, 24 Apr 2007 09:41:09 +0000

Heav’n has no Rage, like Love to Hatred turn’d,
Nor Hell a Fury, like a Woman scorn’d.